Party Questions
Our events take place in Los Angeles at a variety of beautiful, private venues, with attendance typically between 50 and 250 guests. Other events—such as sex-positive workshops, socials, and community gatherings—are hosted at LA’s premier social clubs, private venues or residences.
Our main Play events typically run between 8-14 hours. We also host non-play events: such as socials, workshops, and philanthropic gatherings, which usually last 1-4 hours.
Yes. All guests are required to arrive at our main events within a designated 2 hour arrival window in order to attend our mandatory consent talk. After that, you’re free to leave whenever you’d like.
Absolutely. About half of our guests at our main events are first-timers, and half are returning community members. Please feel free to apply.
Yes. We provide light snacks and an open bar at our events, often featuring top-shelf spirits. Guests are also welcome to bring their own preferred beverages. Over-intoxication is not tolerated, as maintaining a safe, respectful environment is essential for everyone’s experience.
Each event features a unique theme, which is just guidance for the evening. Attendees are invited to wear anything that makes them feel confident – black is always a safe choice. You’re welcome to bring multiple outfits or anything that helps you feel comfortable and expressive throughout the night.
At The Play, you don’t have to do anything. We typically feature 1–3 formally scheduled performances at our events. Others are welcome to perform their talents at any time, and guests interested in performing are encouraged to share this in their application.
No. All attendees must go through our vetting process and join as members in order to attend. Plus ones who are not already part of our community are not permitted.
We are currently expanding into other locations, including Austin, TX and Sydney, Australia. Stay tuned for updates!
If you are curious about our events and are trying to determine whether you’d like to attend any, we invite you to fill out an application so that an interviewer may be able to answer those questions for you. Any other questions can be sent to concierge@theplay.la
Account Questions
Just use the email and password you chose when you applied.
If you applied to The Play before Dec 2025, we have already pre-created an account for you, just follow these steps:
- Go to the password reset page and use the same email you applied with.
- You will get an email with a link to reset your password.
- Use your email and your new password to log in
To connect to the Discord server, you must be part of The Play Network and have an existing Discord account.
- Log into your Play account (Check the question above if you don’t know how to do that)
- Select The Play Network (TPN) Member and follow the steps to subscribe.
- When you return to your account page, click the button that says “Connect to Discord”.
- Log in with your Discord account (Not your Play account!) and select Authorize .
- Open your Discord app and you should see The Play’s server on the left (Big P logo).
- Introduce yourself and you’re good to go!